https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity Activity feed for the entire site. Wed, 27 May 2026 02:09:45 +0000 https://buddypress.org/?v= en-US 30 hourly 2 47ecf7c517b5a1b4fb0569aef190939c https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/334 Wed, 27 May 2026 01:58:32 +0000 Anyone else’s partner have a huge ego ? I’ve been with my wife (she’s the one with BPD) for 7 years and this never changed. She thinks she’s so much better than everyone else when she’s not. She’s an average person. I love her for who she is but she will manipulate and change the story to always make herself look superior. That comes with a vic…Read more

]]> 0 645a334ba845adc0687a01635613669c https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/329 Thu, 30 Apr 2026 01:57:44 +0000 I finally said this to her (it took me 2 freaking years), and I will stick to it:
I refuse to accept that everything is my fault.
It is not my fault you can’t handle your emotions.
It is not my fault you can’t regulate yourself.
It’s definitely not my fault you don’t have self-control.
I will be here for you but only if you respect…Read more

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]]> 0 7c2c02b247852d9819f4b23ea8260359 https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/315 Tue, 21 Apr 2026 01:53:27 +0000 I have a question. When your PWBPD splits on you, do they mean what they say? Is it truly how they feel when they’re not splitting? I’m having hard time with the names I’m being called right now.

]]> 3 2af1eed06c46e15c0d793dc9a5f03e9d https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/312 Thu, 15 Jan 2026 01:35:09 +0000 My daughter (17y) has BPD. She hates me and my partner. She’s unable to have any kind of relationship as she gets too clingy and many classmates call her “weird” or “gay” (she’s not). How do I teach her to give her friends/partners more space?

]]> 1 a3086d936d1dcf905325ec5bfc644221 https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/301 Tue, 09 Dec 2025 05:55:40 +0000 Does anyone in this group have a loved one with BPD who also experiences maladaptive daydreaming? It’s getting out of hand. I’m not saying he’s crazy. It’s just very excessive.

]]> 2 04aa75ac626e08b95591c4c6b34bcd86 https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/295 Wed, 12 Nov 2025 22:44:13 +0000 Does any of you or loved one have any experience with DBT therapy? If yes, with what result?

]]> 3 f267d5905f2029d0e8cfaea92923d57b https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/294 Sun, 02 Nov 2025 15:33:08 +0000 It was my partner’s birthday 2 days ago. He has BPD and is a narcissist as well. (I didn’t know that when I moved in with him). He said he didn’t want any gifts. So, I didn’t get a gift but I got him a card and a cupcake with one tiny candle. He went nuts over it, rage texting and calling me on my way to work about how I’ve ruined his birth…Read more

]]> 3 5e93310c39ef0b363409005fdc1f4bd4 https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/289 Sun, 02 Nov 2025 14:31:49 +0000 As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. I get commissions for purchases made through links in this post.

]]> 0 dd7165d28262c8586e90243a5ea515fc https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/279 Mon, 27 Oct 2025 01:18:19 +0000 I don’t even know what I’m doing on this page. You all seem to be in the beginning stages of dating someone with BPD. I’ve been enduring verbal abuse from my wife close to 17 years. I kind of got used to it but sometimes she still gets under my skin. I think she’s getting worse with age. We are both in our 50s. It doesn’t take much to piss her off…Read more

]]> 5 b8b36c4e7bea31287d9791edd4005b70 https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/276 Mon, 27 Oct 2025 00:58:03 +0000 Help!!! Is there something, anything! that I can say to a splitting wife whose splitting is so bad right now that me just saying “Good morning, my love. How is your day going so far?” has got her thinking that I’m “being an a*****e” and “taunting” her?

]]> 6 42207550d3d2ab6489ce2820327b15b6 https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/274 Fri, 10 Oct 2025 16:59:12 +0000 He never came back and I was so depressed but now I’m genuinely happy! I’m moving forward and hoping for a bright future! Even if he does come back, I honestly don’t care. It still hurts but now I know that he will do the exact same to the next person he’s gonna date! I already feel sorry for that next person! People with BPD WILL NEVER CHANGE!!!!…Read more

]]> 2 409a672abfcd7ca791af7caad5ed8032 https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/271 Sat, 27 Sep 2025 21:30:22 +0000 So, just an update: my husband never came back. He did eventually contacted me but only to reassure me that he’s indeed leaving. After 7 years. He barely acknowledges my daughter whom he seemed to be very close with all these years. I haven’t seen him since he left. I only got a very brief message from him.

]]> 2 80670f13769e28086a494db5dcabd05d https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/262 Sat, 20 Sep 2025 18:18:41 +0000 Was it easy for you after breaking up with your pwBPD? What feelings did you have right after breaking up with them? I feel relieved, I don’t miss the abuse and constant stress but I miss them so much. It’s like I waited for this moment and now I feel like I regret it 😔.

]]> 2 aa452eb7be917a855974947dddd4d76b https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/257 Thu, 21 Aug 2025 01:28:09 +0000 I’m not sure how to handle this anymore. How have you all managed the multiple discards while still in the relationship? Being discarded, then being texted back and love bombed like nothing happened? Like they never discarded you? It hurts every time he does it. It just accumulates in me until one day it will be me who’ll explode.

]]> 3 d05b7293d445fe78180deaeece6c227f https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/256 Thu, 21 Aug 2025 01:25:17 +0000

]]> 2 56f0aff37e6f9d3e01abfa1a3132065d https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/251 Wed, 20 Aug 2025 03:55:28 +0000 I love my girlfriend I’m sorry to say that here but the sex is incredibly good! But she wants my locations 24/7 and since it wasn’t working yesterday when I was out she was tripping. When I’m sleeping she goes on my phone and looks at my conversations. I don’t really like that because my friends can’t text me when they have something persona…Read more

]]> 4 58c144157513cef41b247db1d01ab340 https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/239 Tue, 19 Aug 2025 02:24:14 +0000 We have three children together, a house, a dog. We married 15 years ago. I’m a Christian, divorce to me is unthinkable, but I can’t take the emotional and mental abuse from this woman any longer. I feel like I’m right on the edge. She constantly accuses me of infidelity, disparages my character to our children, family, and friends and when I…Read more

]]> 2 0f38fcf1563d44202d7fe54e13bfd415 https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/233 Mon, 18 Aug 2025 02:34:35 +0000 I’m heartbroken. Can anyone explain to me how a person with Borderline Personality Disorder (diagnosed but refusing treatment) can just up and disappear, and walk out on their family without any sort of closure or remorse? My husband of 7 years split 3 months ago and moved out over a minor issue. He has been avoiding and ignoring me ever since. He…Read more

]]> 2 485635b495c5d5b0fb53eb7ef07ec7e6 https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/228 Sun, 17 Aug 2025 02:11:58 +0000 Why do they always have to come out as winners? Instead of admitting they need help and working on themselves, they find ways to make you look bad. Like why do they break up, get back together over and over and over again and then tell everyone else that it was you every time. So their family looks at you like the psycho?

]]> 3 f72767513684a49b978529ae52397bf4 https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/225 Fri, 15 Aug 2025 22:17:06 +0000 So, my partner with BPD unblocked me a week ago after 4 month of no contact after a very harsh discard from him. The unblock is only on Facebook , while WhatsApp and phone are still blocked. Has this happened to any of you? Why the unblock after all this time ? What do they usually do next? Should I be worried? He was verbally and physically…Read more

]]> 3 4552ad6918b603ff353df6797325194e https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/221 Fri, 15 Aug 2025 01:02:58 +0000 I’ve only been with my boyfriend for 6 months but I developed deep feelings for him already. I’ve been through a lot in my life, lived on three different continents, lost a lot of family members and friends to accidents/political turmoil/disease, you name it. I learned to be very tolerant and patient with people.
This guy I fell for, let’s call…Read more

]]> 1 2c537b8b5b9c3f3a46beb8d622d50ea8 https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/212 Wed, 13 Aug 2025 14:41:27 +0000 After nearly 2 years with my bpd partner, I tend to overthink every word in text or conversation with him. Do you do the same? Do you feel like every word you say is being analyzed? Your body posture is being analyzed? I’m also ready to immediately jump into defense/explanation mode when asked simple questions by him. Every time I say or text…Read more

]]> 2 00a0cb830d87f4c2d1ad4946b342d8fd https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/211 Wed, 13 Aug 2025 14:31:21 +0000 0 af46ee9a4c115c66b8469da029827a1a https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/209 Tue, 12 Aug 2025 12:01:05 +0000 I thought we were soulmates. I wanted to marry her. I wanted to have a family with her. Instead, she destroyed my home on several occasions, broke furniture, caused issues with my neighbors, cost me a few thousand dollars in damages, spent months yelling at me that she hates me, that I ruined her life, that I am a miserable man, and that I make…Read more

]]> 2 5e30e16c9b759a1002ea8040c0b5a094 https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/204 Mon, 11 Aug 2025 19:39:01 +0000 I was so much in love with this girl… I didn’t know… She was so mentally abusive. She did more mental damage to me than the rest of my life combined…
Am I wrong for not only refusing to ever get involved with someone with borderline personality disorder again? My friends warned me to stay away from BPD partners. I didn’t know. Now I do. I’m in pain.

]]> 3 95a523432c83ae611791848f51888e65 https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/203 Mon, 11 Aug 2025 19:26:45 +0000 0 782ea117824456fcea0ebd700489df30 https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/198 Sat, 09 Aug 2025 21:21:22 +0000 So, I have been married to my wife who has borderline personality disorder for 9 years (dating for 11 years). The current state of my relationship is precarious, with my wife’s emotional volatility creating an unpredictable and highly unstable environment. Our 11-year relationship has been tested by the arrival of our baby girl, which might be…Read more

]]> 3 8de92b9158b443a60cda6833dc8d7b44 https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/195 Fri, 08 Aug 2025 19:56:07 +0000 Do you think people with BPD even realize how hard it is on us, caregivers? My girlfriend sometimes seems to genuinely regret the things she’s done to me but most times she’s very cruel and says things I will probably never forgive her for.

]]> 4 c8ced22d84fe09db012aecb3c63e217c https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/191 Fri, 08 Aug 2025 12:43:42 +0000 I divorced my husband over a year ago yet he still keeps track of every mistake I have ever made. He’d invent his own rules and punish me if I break it. At times he’d seemingly forgive me only to throw it back in my face again. Leaving him was the best decision ever, however, it’s still not quite over yet. Having friends in common certainly…Read more

]]> 4 950a088a2fa53aaabd9703f8a19dc5d8 https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/183 Thu, 07 Aug 2025 02:07:37 +0000

]]> 3 3a25179669d625ef0fcc1dfe9758e9ea https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/180 Thu, 07 Aug 2025 01:55:53 +0000 I find this article very helpful:
https://psychcentral.com/blog/caregivers/2017/09/15-things-not-to-do-with-someone-with-borderline-personality#6

]]> 1 c5bd367e23199a006b12185c1badd28d https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/179 Thu, 07 Aug 2025 01:52:29 +0000 My partner with BPD has watched BPD videos and even read some books and has said: I’m sorry I’ve done this to you (verbal abuse + numerous discards). Guess what happens in the next split? Same old crap without batting an eye.
Reason: it’s my fault. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 I got to the point when I just roll my eyes and leave. I’m lucky I have my own place. I…Read more

]]> 2 09132720637677b75d6475ce5db526b5 https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/169 Thu, 07 Aug 2025 00:40:23 +0000 0 59d4a3c0d83ffa7577c841dc4a331725 https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/167 Sun, 03 Aug 2025 22:22:14 +0000 0 29d0b9e514ff1fea85597c377ecb705b https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/166 Sun, 03 Aug 2025 22:20:05 +0000 Hi. I’m dating this great lady with this diagnosis. How can I help her and avoid triggers and how to handle it when she gets triggers?
I’m very new to this. 🥺 and I really want to show her that I can understand BPD and communicate well when it gets activated.

]]> 5 b9ef998ed3e1333ad04d6d59bac28f89 https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/159 Tue, 29 Jul 2025 04:01:52 +0000 I read a lot about borderline disorder. Are there any happily ever after stories of being with someone with bpd? I have been seeing this girl for 5 months or so and it’s a rollercoaster. She’s the most loyal, loving girl ever but damn, these tests to see how much I can be put through and still be around are terrible. Is it worth it?

]]> 2 1fbb31f554953b73c7e3dafdc3753b84 https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/158 Tue, 29 Jul 2025 03:52:29 +0000 0 aef5c3a26b353c8575c0f4efe8807991 https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/153 Mon, 28 Jul 2025 02:02:01 +0000 My boyfriend is in denial about his borderline personality disorder. He doesn’t think there’s anything wrong with him. I’m tempted to secretly record his splitting next time and show it to him when he’s back to normal. Has any of you done it? Did they finally admit they need professional help?

]]> 2 26a684d1b4fb42c6d960fbfc8aae0bf7 https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/147 Sun, 27 Jul 2025 03:24:03 +0000 Is your BPD partner only cruel to you but never their friends, so they can spin to friends that you are in fact the crazy one?

]]> 2 2a3c7428994ad30e0ba773fb71d8e02c https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/146 Sun, 27 Jul 2025 03:17:58 +0000 Can psychedelics have a beneficial effect on BPD?

]]> 3 3b5442cef1a56c47f81db57f69ef0016 https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/143 Fri, 25 Jul 2025 03:07:18 +0000 Dr Ramani is my favorite on YouTube:

]]> 2 a5ad903e054e59bbdfaa9d3e446c5bd5 https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/140 Fri, 25 Jul 2025 02:55:59 +0000 We broke up after a very tumultuous relationship. He had severe BPD – it was a cycle of love, violence, and trauma. I developed PTSD. I have nightmares, depression, flashbacks, emotional numbness, I lost all interest in life. Do we ever heal from this traumatizing experience ? It’s been 9 months now . How do we forget the harm? Is anyone here…Read more

]]> 3 4b61468d7cf8307cbb101f80121cddca https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/138 Fri, 25 Jul 2025 02:38:05 +0000 0 abb9d548256c298c8ab967fafd515f3e https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/137 Wed, 23 Jul 2025 03:52:15 +0000 I know I had no choice. I moved out two weeks ago. I can’t actually fathom how self-centred and manipulative he is.To the point where I am actually constantly questioning the legitimacy of the diagnosis and truly think that an Asshole/Vile/Neglectful Narcissist diagnosis is probably more accurate. He’s already seeing someone else! How can he move…Read more

]]> 2 d7d70fcd7a7556d27867787298550ee1 https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/133 Wed, 23 Jul 2025 03:30:02 +0000 0 2454e151343bfa2843116d65a9ac4d57 https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/120 Mon, 21 Jul 2025 02:59:07 +0000 Is it common for BPD people to have high blood pressure? Maybe due to the stress and drama they go through in their heads? My husband is not overweight and only in his late 40s but his blood pressure is through the roof.

]]> 4 fa7271ed6a781181433495c2ea429111 https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/117 Mon, 21 Jul 2025 02:36:38 +0000 1 82faa93b86944756d1448ed1b747fbb9 https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/115 Sat, 19 Jul 2025 02:15:28 +0000 I need to vent out. When I’m not being ridiculed, yelled at, threatened, given orders, I’m being ignored. What a difference from how he was treating me just a few days ago!! He was the most loving caring man on Earth! WTF???!!!! I’m so drained. Can’t do this anymore!! F* this S***!!! Borderlines/narcissist are the most f**** up people on Earth!!!!

]]> 4 92b1a342fdd9a9fcf114696a882d1bad https://www.777matrix.com/storm/activity/p/112 Fri, 18 Jul 2025 03:27:46 +0000 I have a question. Is it common for people with BPD to have delusions? My boyfriend told me something very significant that supposedly happened in his life. It turned out to be a complete lie that he, however, seems to believe 100%. Is he just lying to impress me? Is he delusional? He tells his story so vividly and with so many details it’s hard…Read more

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